Late to the Festive Party: The Delay in Setting Up My Artificial Christmas Tree - Ms. Otelia's Corner

Here we are, on December 20, 2023, and I find myself in the midst of a holiday conundrum that might sound familiar to many: the delayed setting up of my artificial Christmas tree. Traditionally, my tree would be twinkling in all its glory well before Thanksgiving, but this year, the branches are just starting to unfold. Why do we delay this festive ritual, especially when it's an artificial tree that doesn't even require the maintenance of a real one? Have you ever found yourself in a similar situation?

Procrastination isn't just about avoiding a task; sometimes, it's about savoring the anticipation. With artificial trees, there's no rush to beat the dropping needles or the wilting branches. We have the luxury of time, allowing the tree to slowly take shape, both physically and in our holiday narrative. This gradual process can be a part of the charm, turning tree decorating into a lingering celebration rather than a rushed chore. Unlike that one hectic year when I tried to set everything up in a hurry, only to end up with a tree that looked more like a confused tangle of lights and tinsel than a festive centerpiece!

Even with an artificial tree, the emotional connections remain strong. Each ornament and strand of tinsel carries memories and sentiments. Perhaps our delay is a subconscious effort to pace ourselves, to not get overwhelmed by the surge of emotions that the holiday season often brings. Moreover, the pressure to create a perfect holiday setting can be daunting, making us hesitant to start.

Let's not overlook the practical aspects. Artificial trees, with their need to be fluffed and shaped, present a different kind of challenge. It's not just about setting it up; it's about crafting the perfect look. This process can be time-consuming, and on busy days, it's easy to push it down the to-do list. The beauty of an artificial tree is that it waits patiently for us, ready whenever we are.

As I stand amidst the half-assembled branches of my artificial Christmas tree, I realize that this delay isn't just about avoiding a task; it's about embracing the holiday season at our own pace. Whether it's the emotional weight, the pursuit of perfection, or simply the busy whirlwind of December, our delayed tree setup is a part of our unique holiday story. This years’ experience has taught me to enjoy each moment of the preparation, no matter how delayed, as a part of the holiday joy.

And now, I'm curious about your holiday experiences. Do you find yourself delaying the setup of your Christmas tree, artificial or otherwise? What are your reasons, and how do you feel once the tree is finally up and shining? In my case, the sense of accomplishment and the festive glow it brings to my home is always worth the wait. Share your thoughts and let's celebrate the diverse ways we all find joy in this festive season!