Making Better Choices: Simple Ways to Use Discernment Every Day - Ms. Otelia's Corner

In our last discussion on "Decoding and Understanding Discernment," we looked into how we can make smarter decisions by understanding the challenges we face. Now, as I confront a significant decision myself, I find it natural to question if I'm choosing wisely. I often think about how my choices will affect others and consider my responsibility for their well-being. This also makes me wonder: have they considered how their decisions affect me?

With these ethical considerations in mind, I want to share some straightforward strategies I am currently using to refine this essential skill.

1. Pay Attention to Your Choices - Improving our decision-making starts with awareness. I try to be mindful of the choices I make every day. Instead of keeping a detailed record, I reflect on significant decisions after I've made them, thinking about why I made them and their outcomes. This practice helps me see patterns and think about what I might want to adjust moving forward.
2. Listen to Different Opinions - I try to listen to different viewpoints. Talking with people who think differently than I do or reading different materials helps me gain new perspectives. This is crucial for understanding complex issues and making informed choices.
3. Keep Learning – I constantly seek out new learning opportunities, whether it’s through online classes, workshops, or educational videos, to keep my mind sharp.
4. Practice Being Mindful - To calm my mind and clear my thoughts, I engage in embroidery and mindfulness practices like deep breathing. I tried meditation, but it was not for me. I am currently exploring guided imagery exercises and where to find them.
5. Try Out What You Learn - Applying theoretical knowledge to real-life situations is very important. I've promised myself to use what I am learning when making decisions, whether it’s in personal discussions, managing my finances, or in professional settings.
6. Think About What’s Right - I must consider what’s fair and right, not just what is best for me. I reflect on how my choices may affect others and how they align with my values, but ultimately, I have to make the best choice for myself. This approach ensures that my decisions are ethical and considerate.
7. Understand Others Better – Being sensitive to both my emotions and those of others helps me make better choices. I strive to be more empathetic, listen actively, and consider the effects of my actions on others, but ultimately, I must make the best decision for myself.

It’s all about navigating life’s challenges with a clearer mind and a steadier hand.

I’m curious to hear about your experiences with these strategies. Have you encountered any challenges? Let’s discuss and learn from each other in the comments below.