In our last discussion on "Decoding and Understanding Discernment," we looked into how we can make smarter decisions by
understanding the challenges we face. Now, as I confront a significant decision
myself, I find it natural to question if I'm choosing wisely. I often think
about how my choices will affect others and consider my responsibility for
their well-being. This also makes me wonder: have they considered how their
decisions affect me?
With these ethical considerations in mind, I want to share
some straightforward strategies I am currently using to refine this essential
skill.
- Pay
Attention to Your Choices - Improving our decision-making starts with
awareness. I try to be mindful of the choices I make every day. Instead of
keeping a detailed record, I reflect on significant decisions after I've made them, thinking about why I made them and their outcomes. This
practice helps me see patterns and think about what I might want to adjust
moving forward.
- Listen
to Different Opinions - I try to listen to different viewpoints. Talking
with people who think differently than I do or reading different materials helps me gain new perspectives. This is crucial for understanding
complex issues and making informed choices.
- Keep
Learning – I constantly seek out new learning opportunities, whether
it’s through online classes, workshops, or educational videos, to keep my
mind sharp.
- Practice
Being Mindful - To calm my mind and clear my thoughts, I engage in embroidery
and mindfulness practices like deep breathing. I tried meditation, but it
was not for me. I am currently exploring guided imagery exercises and
where to find them.
- Try
Out What You Learn - Applying theoretical knowledge to real-life
situations is very important. I've promised myself to use what I am
learning when making decisions, whether it’s in personal discussions,
managing my finances, or in professional settings.
- Think
About What’s Right - I must consider what’s fair and right, not just
what is best for me. I reflect on how my choices may affect others and how
they align with my values, but ultimately, I have to make the best choice
for myself. This approach ensures that my decisions are ethical and
considerate.
- Understand
Others Better – Being sensitive to both my emotions and those of
others helps me make better choices. I strive to be more empathetic,
listen actively, and consider the effects of my actions on others, but
ultimately, I must make the best decision for myself.
It’s all about navigating life’s challenges with a clearer
mind and a steadier hand.
I’m curious to hear about your experiences with these
strategies. Have you encountered any challenges? Let’s discuss and learn from
each other in the comments below.
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