Remembering our Grandmother. Bessie (née Morton) Johnson 1908-1932

Today Marks the 93rd Anniversary of the death of our Grandmother, Bessie (née Morton) Rominger Turrentine Johnson

Bessie (1908 – June 17, 1932) was the daughter of Novele Morton Rominger (1896–1924) and Ed Rominger (1870–1945). She was one of six children and part of a generation shaped by both hardship and hope.

Her siblings were:

• Edna (1912–1999)

• Fred (1914–1987)

• Mary Jane (1916–1993)

• Clinton (1920–1973)

• A sibling who died in childbirth in 1922

• Dora (1924–1950)

Bessie married Roosevelt Turrentine on March 27, 1929, in Halifax, Virginia, and they had one daughter, Lucille “Lucy” (1927–2004). She later married Troy Johnson on June 19, 1930, in Danville, Virginia, and they had one daughter, Ella Louise Thompson (née Johnson, 1928–2003).

Ella was just five years old when Bessie passed away in 1932. Losing her mother at such a young age left a lasting wound that she carried throughout her life. The absence of Bessie’s presence—her guidance, protection, and love—was deeply felt and often reflected in the way Ella spoke of her mother’s memory. Even without many stories passed down, the grief that followed Bessie’s passing speaks volumes about the love and importance she held in her family’s heart.

Bessie’s legacy continues through her grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-great-grandchildren, who carry forward the memory of her life and lineage.

Honoring Those Who Came Before Us: A Simple Reflection on Ancestral Veneration - Ms. Otelia's Corner

In many cultures, ancestral veneration is not about worship — it’s about respect, remembrance, and relationship. It’s the quiet understanding that we didn’t get here on our own. We carry the prayers, the pain, and the perseverance of those who came before us — whether we know their names or not.

For some, honoring ancestors means lighting a candle or placing a photo on an altar. For others, it’s cooking a family recipe, saying a name out loud, or simply taking a moment to give thanks. There’s no one way to do it, and that’s the beauty of it — ancestral veneration is personal, powerful, and rooted in presence.

Here’s the truth:

• You don’t need expensive tools.

• You don’t need to know your whole family tree.

• You don’t even need to have the “right” words.

All you need is intention.

A whispered thank you in the morning.
A cup of coffee poured in someone’s memory.
A photo dusted and displayed with care.

These are acts of connection — reminders that life doesn’t begin and end with us. We are links in a long, unbroken chain.

For me, ancestral veneration is about grounding.

Grounding is the practice of reconnecting yourself to the present moment — mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. When life feels chaotic or uncertain, grounding helps bring you back to center. And remembering your ancestors — their strength, their survival, their sacrifices — can be a powerful way to do that.

When I pause to honor them, I remember that I’m not standing on shaky ground. I’m standing on stories, on prayers, on strength that was passed down. Whether I light a candle or just speak their name, it reminds me: I’m not alone. I come from something. I am something.

That’s what ancestral veneration does.
It brings peace in the present.
It gives meaning to the past.
And it plants strength for the future.

Gratitude at 65: A Celebration of Life's Simple Joys - Ms. Otelia's Corner

Today, on my 65th birthday, I find myself reflecting on the beauty of the simplicity in life. As the years pass, birthdays often become more than just another year; they are moments to pause and appreciate the journey we’ve been on. While grand celebrations have their place, I’ve come to value the quiet significance of these milestones. This year, I am embracing the theme of gratitude and marking the day in a way that truly resonates with me.

The simplicity of this day is not a lack of celebration but a deliberate choice to cherish what matters most. Life’s daily demands often leave little room for peace and stillness, so today, I am stepping away from schedules and obligations. Instead, I’m gifting myself the luxury of living the day at my own pace—a rare and treasured joy.

Simple days have a way of revealing life’s often-overlooked treasures: the quiet of a morning, the comfort of a favorite book, or the warmth of heartfelt calls from family and friends. These small, beautiful moments form the essence of today’s celebration, grounding me in the present and reminding me of life’s richness.

On this special day, I also celebrate the memory of my beloved siblings: Elaine (Cookie), Vanessa (Van), and Ronnie, whose lives were filled with love, laughter, and warmth. Their spirits continue to enrich my life, even in their absence.

I’ll cherish memories of Ronnie’s humor and his strong, protective love for our family. I’ll smile as I think of Cookie, who saw everyone she met as family, calling my name in her unique, sing-song voice that I adored. I’ll remember her joy in taking the kids to Coney Island, fishing, and crabbing. And my sister Van, who thought I was the smartest person in the world and brought laughter to the kitchen with her love of baseball, card games, and Chinese food. When she declared, “I’m sweeping,” I knew Cookie and I were on dish duty! Their love and light remain with me always.

As I celebrate turning 65, my heart is full of gratitude. I am thankful for the years I’ve lived, the lessons I’ve learned, and the countless blessings along the way. I am grateful for the love and support of my family and friends and for the strength and resilience that life’s challenges have instilled in me.

Looking ahead, I embrace the future with hope and an open heart. Each day is an opportunity to grow, connect, and experience the beauty of life anew. I am ready to welcome whatever lies ahead, guided by the gratitude that has shaped this special day.

Happy 65th Birthday to me!

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What brings you gratitude today? Take a moment to reflect on the people and moments that make life meaningful. Share your thoughts and celebrate with me in the comments below!

"Yemayá: Exploring the Depths of the African Goddess of Seas

Yemayá, the majestic mermaid goddess of the sea and motherhood, transcends her African origins to become a globally revered deity. This blog explores her journey from the Yoruba religion in West Africa to an internationally beloved goddess, tracing her influence across cultures and continents.

Originating from the Yoruba religion, Yemayá is often depicted as a black woman, embodying the qualities of African people. As the goddess of the sea, she represents life's essence, with the ocean as her domain, symbolizing life's depth and mystery.

Revered as a nurturing mother figure, Yemayá is a symbol of fertility, childbirth, and parenting. Her maternal instinct extends to all who seek her care, making her a universal symbol of protection and nurturing.

Yemayá's associations with the Virgin Mary played a crucial role in her spread throughout Latin America. This syncretism allowed her veneration to flourish, particularly in regions like Cuba, where she became a central figure in Afro-Caribbean religious practices.

Cuban immigrants were instrumental in bringing Yemayá to the United States, where her worship expanded exponentially. In America, she evolved beyond a local water spirit to an internationally recognized goddess. Her fluid and adaptable nature allowed her to be worshipped in various forms, appealing to a wide range of devotees from numerous traditions.

Today, Yemayá ranks among the most beloved goddesses worldwide. Her appeal lies in her ability to embody the universal themes of motherhood, protection, and the nurturing power of nature. Celebrations in her honor, such as the rituals on February 2nd, draw diverse crowds, reflecting her wide-reaching influence.

Yemayá's transformation from an African sea deity to a global goddess symbolizes the interconnectedness of cultures and the universal appeal of certain spiritual figures. Her journey is a testament to the enduring power of myth and the human need for deities that represent our deepest values and aspirations. As we honor Yemayá, we celebrate not just a goddess, but the rich tapestry of cultural exchange and adaptation that she represents.

Resources

Culture Bay African Mythology

Embracing 2024: A Lesson from Lot's Wife - Ms. Otelia's Corner

As we stand at the threshold of 2024, leaving behind the memories and challenges of 2023, let's draw inspiration from an ancient tale that resonates with our modern journey. The story of Lot's wife, as told in Genesis, and its echo in Luke 17:31-32, it offers a profound metaphor for embracing change and looking ahead with hope and determination.

In the biblical narrative, Lot's wife becomes a pillar of salt because she looks back at the burning city of Sodom, despite being given divine instructions not to. This story is often interpreted as a warning against the perils of clinging to the past or ignoring guidance that urges us forward.

In Luke 17, Jesus references this story, emphasizing the importance of readiness for change and the danger of longing for what we've left behind. His words are a timeless reminder of the need for decisiveness when facing life's pivotal moments.

As we transition into 2024, let's apply these lessons. The allure of the familiar is strong, but the future holds new possibilities and opportunities for growth. Embracing change, instead of resisting it, can lead to transformative experiences.

Whether through spiritual reflection or introspection, seeking guidance on our journey is crucial. The new year is a blank canvas, and we have the power to paint a future that reflects our highest aspirations and values. It's a time for setting goals that align with our personal growth and well-being.

To make the most of 2024, consider these actionable steps:

Set Clear Goals: Define what you want to achieve in 2024. Make your goals specific, measurable, and attainable.

Stay Present: Practice mindfulness to keep your focus on the present moment. This helps in appreciating the journey and not just the destination.

Learn from the Past: Reflect on the lessons of 2023 without letting them weigh you down. Use these insights to make better choices in the new year.

The story of Lot's wife and Jesus' words in Luke 17:31-32 remind us of the importance of looking forward and embracing new paths. As we step into 2024, let's do so with optimism, purpose, and a willingness to embrace the changes that come our way.

I would love to hear your thoughts and plans for 2024. How do you intend to embrace change and move forward? Share your resolutions and strategies in the comments below.

Exploring the Essence of Faith: Insights from Hebrews 11:1 - Ms. Otelia's Corner

Hebrews 11:1 is celebrated as one of the most profound and inspiring verses in the Bible, it is often highlighted as a central description of faith within the Christian tradition. It eloquently states, "Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen." In this blog, we will explore the various interpretations of this verse and consider how its message can resonate in our daily lives. Our aim is to engage with Hebrews 11:1 in a way that inspires personal reflection and offers insight into how faith can be a source of hope and strength, especially during challenging times.

While the Book of Hebrews was originally written for Jewish Christians, its messages resonate universally, especially in the context of enduring challenging times. Hebrews 11, often referred to as the "Faith Chapter," which is particularly relevant. It serves as a beacon of hope and strength, not just for its initial audience, but for anyone seeking solace and guidance during trials and tribulations.

Hebrews 11:1 offers two key components of faith: assurance and conviction. Assurance refers to a confident expectation, a trust in God's promises. Conviction, on the other hand, is a firm belief in the reality of the unseen – the spiritual truths that guide our lives. This verse teaches us that faith is not just wishful thinking, but a confident belief in God's promises and His character.

The essence of faith is not just in understanding but in action. The subsequent verses in Hebrews 11 provide examples of faith in action from biblical figures like Abraham, Moses, and Sarah. Their stories illustrate how faith is not passive but involves active trust and obedience to God, even when the outcome is not visible.

In today's world, where tangible evidence and scientific proof are highly valued, Hebrews 11:1 challenges us to embrace a different kind of certainty – one that is rooted in spiritual conviction and trust in God. It encourages believers to hold onto hope and trust in God's plan, even when the path is unclear.

Faith, as described in Hebrews 11:1, has the power to transform lives. It gives strength in times of trouble, provides hope in despair, and brings clarity in confusion. Faith is the lens through which we can see the world in a different light – one filled with possibilities and divine guidance.

Hebrews 11:1 is more than just a verse; it's a call to a deeper, more profound relationship with God. It invites us to trust in Him, to see beyond our current circumstances, and to believe in the unseen. As we reflect on this powerful scripture, let us strive to embody the true essence of faith in our daily lives.

How does Hebrews 11:1 change your understanding of faith?

Can you recall a time when you had to rely on faith in the unseen?

How can you apply the principles of faith from this verse in your daily life?

Gratitude: Transforming Life One Thankful Moment at a Time - Ms. Otelia's Corner

In the whirlwind of our daily lives, it's easy to get caught up in the pursuit of the next big thing, often overlooking the small gems of happiness that lie scattered around us. Today, let's pause and reflect on a powerful, yet frequently underestimated tool that can transform our everyday experiences: gratitude.

Gratitude isn't just a warm feeling; it's a practice backed by science. Studies have shown that regularly expressing gratitude can lead to significant improvements in mental and physical health. It has been linked to better sleep, reduced stress, and a stronger immune system. On a psychological level, gratitude can lift our spirits, increase resilience, and foster a more optimistic outlook on life.

I remember a day not too long ago, when everything seemed to go wrong. I was damned if I did and damned if I didn't.  Afterward, I took a moment to think about three things I was grateful for. A warm home, supportive loved ones, and the last days I spent with my Mama. This shifted my perspective of that day. It reminded me that even on the toughest days, moments of gratitude are present.

Incorporating gratitude into your daily life can be simple and profound. Here are a few ways to start:

• Keep a Gratitude Journal: Each night, write down three things you were grateful for that day.
• Express Thanks Regularly: Whether it's a text to a friend or a thank you note, make it a habit to express your appreciation to others.
• Mindfulness Practices: Take a few moments each day to be present and acknowledge the good around you, whether it's savoring a meal or pulling a memory from the crevices of your mind.

Gratitude doesn't just benefit us individually; it has the power to radiate outward. When we express gratitude, we not only uplift ourselves but also those around us. It strengthens our relationships and can create a more positive environment, whether at home, work, or other situations.

Gratitude is more than just saying 'thank you.' It's a mindset, a way of seeing the world. It's about recognizing the good in our lives and understanding that, often, happiness comes from appreciation, not acquisition. By making gratitude a regular practice, we open ourselves up to a more fulfilling, contented life.

Now, I'd love to hear from you. How has gratitude impacted your life? What are you thankful for today? Share your stories of gratitude in the comments below. Let's inspire each other with our experiences and spread the joy of thankfulness. Remember, it's the small moments of gratitude that can lead to a lifetime of happiness.

Resources

The Science of Gratitude 

Giving thanks can make you happier

The Psychology of Gratitude

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Embracing Multiplicity: My Unique Path to Finding My Niche - Ms. Otelia's Corner

After a journey of self-assessment, market research, and experimentation, I've discovered the joy of a multi-niche life. Embracing all my interests has led to a fulfilling and resilient career path.

The Power of a Multi-Niche Approach: 

Combining my passions for sewing, embroidering, sublimating, and writing has not only enriched each interest but also opened up a world of opportunities. This synergy has led to a more satisfying personal and professional life.

The "Aha" Moment:

Realizing that my niche is a tapestry of my interests was a game-changer. It allowed me to connect with an audience that values diversity and authenticity in content and offerings.

The Benefits of a Multi-Niche Focus:

A multi-niche approach has provided a buffer against the ebbs and flows of life, much like a diversified portfolio. It's a testament to the strength found in versatility and adaptability.

Embracing a multi-niche life has been the most rewarding decision. It's a call to those who are multi-passionate to explore the boundless possibilities that await in a life where every interest has its place.

 Are you ready to embrace your multi-niche life too? Join me on this journey of discovery and fulfillment.

   

Reference: 'How to Identify and Dominate Your Business Niche,' Business News Daily. Available at: Business News Daily. Accessed on August 31, 2023."

Making the Most of the Blue Moon on August 30, 2023

A Blue Moon is a celestial event that fascinates sky-watchers globally. Although the moon doesn't turn blue, the term "Blue Moon" signifies its rarity. This year, the Blue Moon falls on August 30, offering a unique opportunity for some memorable activities.

What Exactly is a Blue Moon?
The term "Blue Moon" has multiple meanings. It can refer to the second full moon in a month with two full moons or the third full moon in a season with four. Contrary to popular belief, the moon doesn't appear blue but is named for its infrequency.

• Learn more about why the moon isn't actually blue

• Check out the Blue Moon calendar on Time and Date

• Discover rituals to perform during a Blue Moon

• Learn how to photograph the Blue Moon

How Often Do Blue Moons Occur?

• Blue Moons occur roughly every 2.5 years, based on the most widely accepted definition. However, seasonal Blue Moons are even rarer

Does a Blue Moon Have Special Significance?

• In folklore and astrology, Blue Moons are considered times of heightened energy, suitable for rituals and spiritual practices.

How to Best Experience the Blue Moon

• To fully appreciate the Blue Moon, find a location with minimal light pollution and clear skies. The moon will look as it usually does, but the rarity of the event adds a special touch.

Activities for the Blue Moon

Rooftop Picnic
Pack a picnic and head to a rooftop for an unobstructed view of the sky. Enjoy your favorite snacks under the moonlight.

Cityscape Photography
Capture the Blue Moon alongside city landmarks. Use a tripod and experiment with settings to get the perfect shot.

Meditation Session
Utilize the Blue Moon's unique energy for a meditation session. Create a calming environment with soft music and focus on the moon.

Virtual Planetarium Visit
Many planetariums offer online events for lunar occurrences. Check schedules and learn more about celestial bodies from the comfort of your home.

Journaling
Write down your thoughts and wishes under the Blue Moon. This act can be therapeutic and offer clarity on life aspects.

City Park Walk
If you're near a city park, a moonlit walk can be both romantic and invigorating. Enjoy the moon's glow amidst the city's hustle.

Art Night
Host an art night focused on creating moon-themed art. Use various mediums and let your creativity flow.

Moon-Themed Dinner
Prepare a moon-themed dinner with round dishes like pizzas or mooncakes. Make it a fun culinary adventure!

Moonstone Ritual
Moonstones are believed to be more potent during a full moon. Perform a simple ritual to attract positive vibes.

Observation
Sometimes, simply observing the moon is the best way to appreciate its beauty. Find a quiet spot and marvel at the celestial wonder.

The Blue Moon on August 30, 2023, is a unique celestial event that offers various ways to make the evening memorable. Whether you're capturing its beauty, meditating, or simply observing, make sure to make the most of this rare occasion.
Feel free to share your Blue Moon experiences in the comments below!

Walking in Your Purpose: Embracing Clarity and Fulfillment

Do you ever feel like life's a puzzle, and you're trying to find that missing piece? Well, you're not alone. Walking in your purpose is like finding that piece and seeing the bigger picture. It's about living a life that feels right to you, where every step brings satisfaction.

Picture this: Your purpose is your compass. It's not about wearing a cape and saving the world (unless that's your thing!), but about embracing what makes you come alive. Your purpose could be baking, teaching, coding, or even being the world's best listener. It's what you're naturally good at, what you love, and what the world needs from you.

Here's the catch: Finding your purpose isn't a lightning bolt moment. It's more like a journey. Try things, make mistakes, learn, and refine. Think of it as a recipe – a dash of passion, a cup of skills, and a sprinkle of impact. Along the way, surround yourself with positive peeps who believe in your journey.

So, the big question: How do you start? Begin with self-discovery. What lights you up? What could you do all day and still smile? Take small steps towards those things. Purpose isn't a race; it's about enjoying the ride.

Remember, your purpose might evolve. Life's a roller coaster, and as you grow, your purpose might shift too. And that's okay! Embrace change and keep adapting.

Now, over to you: What's that one thing you love doing that makes time fly? Share your thoughts – let's spark a purposeful conversation!

"Beauty for Ashes: Transforming Pain into Purpose - Ms. Otelia's Corner"

The Promise of Transformation

In my life's journey through trials and tribulations, I've often felt as if I stood amidst ashes, surrounded by the remnants of broken dreams and shattered hopes. Yet, I've found a glimmer of hope that shines persistently, even in the darkest times—the promise of beauty emerging from the ashes.

Finding Meaning in Adversity

The concept of "Beauty for Ashes," inspired by the biblical verse Isaiah 61:3, transcends its religious origins, resonating with a universal truth: there is profound potential for meaning and purpose amidst our greatest adversities.

The Refinement of Character

Life's unpredictability brings setbacks and heartaches. These moments can break us, but they also hold the potential for transformation. Just as gold is refined through intense heat, our character is shaped and strengthened in the furnace of life's challenges.

A Shift in Perspective

Transformation begins with perspective. By viewing our pain as a catalyst for growth, we can move from dwelling on loss to discovering gain. In these moments, our resilience shines through, revealing our inner strength.

The Importance of Support

The journey from ashes to beauty is not one to walk alone. Seeking support and building a network of trust can provide the strength needed to navigate through the darkest times.

The Gradual Unfolding of Beauty

Remember, the transformation from pain to purpose is a gradual one. It is a narrative of resilience, where individuals turn their scars into sources of inspiration and their adversities into opportunities for growth.

Rising from the Ashes

Though life may bring us to our knees, it is here that we find the strength to rise. Our scars are not our definitions; they are the marks of our resilience and the testament to the human spirit's capacity to find hope, joy, and purpose amidst the ashes.

An Invitation to Transformation

I invite you to embrace the journey of "Beauty for Ashes." Let your pain illuminate your path and fuel your growth. You are not alone in this journey—lean on others, embrace the transformative power within, and discover the extraordinary potential that lies within you.